Detaching with love”
is a way to care for someone while separating yourself from their problems and behaviors. It involves accepting that you can’t control others, and allowing them to experience the consequences of their choices. This can help you feel more secure in your own emotions and thoughts. Here are some principles of detaching with love:
Accept powerlessness: Recognize that you can’t control others’ outcomes.
Allow consequences: Let others learn from the natural results of their actions.
Avoid enabling: Don’t do things for others that they can do themselves.
Set boundaries: Don’t accept responsibility for fixing other people’s problems.
Focus on yourself: Work on improving yourself instead of trying to change others.
Avoid blame: Don’t try to blame or change others.
Support positive change: Be supportive of positive changes others make.
Accept them as they are: Don’t burden others with expectations of how you want them to be.
Avoid nagging: Don’t nag, scold, or argue with others.
Focus on what you can control: Focus on what you can control instead of worrying about what others are doing.
WE&P by:EZorrillaMc.
