Hate vs. Revenge, Which Is Stronger?

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“How do I know it’s revenge and not prejudice or hatred?” “Yes. I am not challenging you, Rogue. I am asking you to examine the feelings and find the difference.” For a moment, I felt anger and frustration toward her, but I set that aside and tried to turn my attention inward toward the feelings of revenge, anger, and hatred. They were similar, but she was right. They were also different in some ways. I could sense they were different, but at first, as I struggled with them, I couldn’t see what those differences were. She said, “Rogue, what is the difference between revenge and hatred?” I sat forward with my elbows on my knees. “I’ll be damned!” I turned to look at her face. “Again? These things are so obvious, but I am not seeing them.” (Pg.138)

“Gates of Hell (Rogue Thriller Book 1)” by Blake Banner, David Archer.


That’s a fascinating and complex philosophical question. The relationship between hate and revenge is not one of simple opposition; they are deeply intertwined. Revenge is almost always a product of hate, or at least of a profound sense of anger and injustice.
To determine which is “stronger,” we need to define what we mean by strength: Is it more motivating? More destructive? More enduring?
Here’s a breakdown of how to look at it:
The Case for Hate being “Stronger”
Hate is an emotion, a state of being. Revenge is an action, a goal. In this sense, hate is more fundamental.

  • Hate is the Fuel: Hate is the enduring power source. It can simmer for years, decades, or even a lifetime without any action being taken. It can exist entirely on its own. Revenge, on the other hand, almost always requires hate (or a related intense emotion) to exist. You can hate someone without seeking revenge, but you can’t truly seek revenge without some form of hate or rage.
  • Hate is More Enduring: The act of revenge is often a single event or a series of events with a conclusion. Once revenge is exacted, it’s over. However, the hate that fueled it often remains. Sometimes, the act of revenge doesn’t quench the hate but leaves the person feeling empty, or even intensifies their self-loathing. Hate can outlive its target and the act of revenge itself.
  • Hate is Broader: You can hate a concept, an ideology, or an entire group of people. This kind of hate can lead to systemic, long-term destruction like wars and genocides. Revenge is typically more personal and focused on a specific perceived wrong.
    Conclusion: If “stronger” means more fundamental, foundational, and long-lasting, then hate is stronger.
    The Case for Revenge being “Stronger”
    Revenge is a drive, a motivation. It transforms the passive emotion of hate into active, directed energy.
  • Revenge is a More Powerful Motivator: While hate can be a passive, simmering state, the desire for revenge is an incredibly powerful, all-consuming drive. It can give a person a singular purpose that pushes them to achieve extraordinary or terrible things they would otherwise never attempt. It creates a goal and a plan where hate alone might only create bitterness.
  • Revenge has a Sharper Impact: Hate consumes a person from the inside out. Revenge is directed outward. The act of revenge has a tangible, often violent and irreversible, impact on the world. It directly affects and harms the target. In terms of causing immediate, focused change or destruction, revenge is a more potent force.
  • Revenge provides a Climax: The pursuit of revenge has a narrative: a wrong, a period of suffering, a plan, and a final confrontation. This goal-oriented nature can feel more powerful and intense than the chronic, gnawing state of pure hatred.
    Conclusion: If “stronger” means a more powerful, acute, and motivating force for action, then revenge is stronger.
    Final Verdict: A Symbiotic Relationship
    Ultimately, they are two sides of the same destructive coin.
  • Hate is the potential energy; revenge is the kinetic energy.
  • Hate is the vast, deep ocean; revenge is the focused, destructive tsunami it can create.
    Neither is truly “stronger” because they operate on different levels. Hate is the enduring, corrupting state, while revenge is the powerful, consuming drive that erupts from that state.
    Revenge might seem stronger in the moment because it is active and explosive, but it is merely the symptom. Hate is the underlying disease, and it is often far more difficult to cure.

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